My communities have seen too much tragedy this week. But there’s been little rays of sunshine breaking through the clouds.
This morning I needed to get out of the house. My options are limited (thanks COVID) but I decided to go to town, pick up breakfast, and run a few errands.
Before I could do that I needed to clear out the driveway. I can bumble through a foot of powder with the truck but I try to avoid barreling through the plow drift at the end of the driveway unless it’s an emergency. I decided I’d shovel out the plow drift, go to town, and then tackle the rest of the driveway when I got home.
The plow drift was such a fine specimen that I should have logged it for scientific purposes. It was about four feet deep, about two and a half feet tall, and almost entirely made of dense, compacted powder. I started carving it away, quickly slipping into a scoop-lift-throw rhythm.
One of my local guys drove by, backed up, and said he’d take a pass off the end of the drive. Three quick swipes and he’d cleared away the whole plow drift and cleared enough space at the end of the drive to get the truck out without any trouble.
I thanked him and he continued on his way.
I went back inside, called Missie, and began crying.
After this week, I needed that casual kindness. It made my whole day better.
People talk a lot about changing the world. Heroic acts. Daring deeds. There’s nothing wrong with that; the world desperately needs heroes.
But in a world that isn’t kind, being recklessly kind and unconditionally loving is a heroic act. Sometimes the best way to change the world as a whole is to change the world around you.
This week has been hard. But people keep bringing rays of sunshine through the clouds.
I’m so thankful for them.
Do me a favor? Hug your kids and tell them you love them.
Originally posted on Facebook on February 1, 2021.
2 Replies to “From the Files: Sunshine and Snowbanks”
I have stopped watching the news, and started looking for kindness. Like Mr. Roger’s quote, “look for the helpers.” Being kind myself, but giving a shout out and thanking other’s kindness too. It is there in spades. News media has just decided to stop featuring it.
I do make it a point to feature these kindnesses in my newspaper, because they don’t get recognized enough.